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The Apple Technqiue

AnxietyUK suggests practising the "Apple" technique to deal with anxiety and worries.

◾ Acknowledge: Notice and acknowledge the uncertainty as it comes to mind.

◾ Pause: Don't react as you normally do. Don't react at all. Pause and breathe.

◾ Pull back: Tell yourself this is just the worry talking, and this apparent need for certainty is not helpful and not necessary. It is only a thought or feeling. Don't believe everything you think. Thoughts are not statements or facts.

◾ Let go: Let go of the thought or feeling. It will pass. You don't have to respond to them. You might imagine them floating away in a bubble or cloud.

◾ Explore: Explore the present moment, because right now, in this moment, all is well. Notice your breathing and the sensations of your breathing. Notice the ground beneath you. Look around and notice what you see, what you hear, what you can touch, what you can smell. Right now. Then shift your focus of attention to something else - on what you need to do, on what you were doing before you noticed the worry, or do something else - mindfully with your full attention.

Dementia Tipshare

This new website offers people with dementia an easy way to source and share tips that will help them in their everyday lives – especially (but not only) in the time of the pandemic. All the tips are contributed by people with dementia. The project demonstrates their resilience, wisdom and adaptability in coming up with their own strategies to ‘outmanoeuvre dementia’.

Caring for family or friends with dementia 

Could these feelings be grief? This animation has been developed by Kirsten Moore and Sophie Crawley from the Marie Curie Palliative Care Research Department at UCL as part of Kirsten’s senior fellowship from the Alzheimer’s Society.

It was developed with family carers and healthcare professionals to raise awareness of the grief family and friends may experience while caring for someone living with dementia. It is targeted to a wide audience including family and friend carers, along with their friends, family and social network as well as healthcare professionals and those working with carers.  

Purbeck Forget Me Not